Pastor Jasmine preached about what type of people are we in a relationship(what makes us happy)

1)Time
2)Act of Service
3)Gifts
4)Touch
5) word of comfort

I think i am ALL of them .hahahaha..


But if i have to choose just one of it, probably would be Act of service.Really want to enjoy the comfort of someone doing things for me.Wish that one day,i will find that one person that would share my burdens and pampered me like no one!

After staying in Aus for so long ,i should have known the culture well enough!
But there is still certain things which i still could not understand or comprehend.
How can you not drop a girl home in front of the house at 12pm midnight?

This friend of mine, drop my friend and i across the road at 12 midnight just because he doesnt want to make a U-turn.IF is DAY TIME i would have forgiven him,but is midnight,although  is 2 girls  but having to walk in the dark for 3 minutes sound really ridiculous.What if we got raped or kidnapped while walking in?Who knows what will happened in the suburb ?

For me is a common sense,when we dropped people home,we usually will make sure that person walks in the house and lock their door only then we leave.This friend not only dint do it,he even ask if he could drop us across the road.How can i say no to him since he asks? Deep inside my heart i really wanted to say no.cuz is really too dangerous to walk middle of the night.

Im not sure is this a cultural thing or personal character.But for one thing i am sure,most Malaysian would definitely make sure they drop us home safe and sound even if it is out of the way!

PS:IF so happen you see this blog,please forgive me.I dont meant to criticize.But is really something i need to voice it out .Hopefully you would change and learn to care for others more !