Wednesday, November 30, 2016

2 weeks after our wedding


2 weeks into marriage and we were luckily to have mums from both side to cook and clean the house for us. Especially a huge thanks to my dearest mum, I am glad she stayed on for another 2 weeks after our wedding to help me settling in my new chapter of life.

It has definitely been a huge transition for me:

Ever since the wedding, I moved to my new home in Broadmeadows.I have to move all my stuff which I have accumulated in the past years into the new home. To be honest, it wasn’t easy. Having to pack and unpack everything. Luckily mum is around to help me pack and unpack it..you won’t imagine the amount of things I have! Seriously, I cant believe with my own eyes too. Even up to now, I still have things in the apartmentL.

Apart from that, now I need to travel a further distance to work. First few days of work, I was totally exhausted having to spend 1.40 hour one way to work. Around 3 hours of time spent on traveling has been mentally exhausting. Luckily, my boss allows me to work 10 to 6pm instead of 9 to 5, which help slight for now. But still, around 2 hours on the road each day isn’t easy for me. Hope things will slower gets better.

Nonetheless, the best part of it is I am able to see Tony everyday .Having someone to cuddle during the night, a shoulder to lean on when you are tired or upset is the best! At least I know, I am not alone after all.

After the wedding, everyone been asking so how’s marriage life? Well, it is all too early to tell! All I can tell you now is we are glad God has chosen us to be together for the rest of our life. Nothing beats a husband God has prepared for u!


Well, Mum and Matthew left on Monday night so yesterday was the official day the two of us start our first day as husband and wife duty…I was home at 7pm,and thankfully Tony was home slightly early and guess what my husband cooks dinner ! 


Monday, October 17, 2016

A little testimony of mine and devotion from Rick Warren :Do less and trust God more

I  prayed this morning before i start working on the spreadsheet which i did not get tie last Friday.(I actually did the same spreadsheet 3 times last week and didn't get it right - Frustrating  part of the work )  My LITTLE PRAYER was answered ! I got it tie and balance with just one try for the day.Oh great.Monday like this seems like a good start for the week

Then during lunch i read the daily devotion from Rick Warren.Just want to share this message that comes so timely for a day like this ..God really do wonders 

The title : Do less and Trust God more.

“We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired of life itself. As it turned out, it was the best thing that could have happened. Instead of trusting in our own strength or wits to get out of it, we were forced to trust God totally — not a bad idea since he’s the God who raises the dead!” (2 Corinthians 1:8-9 NIV/MSG)

The last step to building more margin in your life is to do less and trust God more.
Why should you do that? Because God can do more in 20 minutes than you can do in 20 years.
Some of you have had some goals and dreams that you’ve been striving, seeking, working, hustling, hurrying for year after year after year, and you haven’t achieved them yet. Why don’t you just back off a little bit? Relax. Chill out. Trust God. Watch what he can do. He can do it a whole lot faster and a whole lot better than you can do it.
The only benefit of being stretched and being on overload is that it forces you to trust God. It brings you to your knees, and you realize you’re up against the wall, out of steam, out of energy.
One time the Apostle Paul hit burnout. He was in Asia, working and serving. And he was ready to throw in the towel!
He says in 2 Corinthians 1:8-9: “We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired of life itself. As it turned out, it was the best thing that could have happened. Instead of trusting in our own strength or wits to get out of it, we were forced to trust God totally — not a bad idea since he’s the God who raises the dead!” (NIV/MSG)
God can do what you can’t do. Jesus did not say, “If you’re busy, you can move mountains.” He didn’t say, “If you work really hard and get really stressed out, you can move a mountain.” He said that if you have faith, you can move mountains (Matthew 17:20). Faith, not busyness, is what gets the job done.
So what’s your mountain? What’s the problem in your life that needs moving? Stop doing so much! Do less, and trust God more.
Pray this prayer today:
“Father, I’ve lived without margin in my life for so long I can hardly remember what it’s like to not feel fatigue or pressure all the time. I think fatigue is the normal way I’m supposed to live and feel, but it’s not. I’m tired of being rushed and late and exhausted all the time. I’ve got too many irons in the fire, and I need your help to get out of the mess I’ve gotten myself into. Help me to recognize and accept my limitations. Help me to put some space in my schedule. I need breathing room and margin in my life. Jesus Christ, I know I can’t do it all, and I need your wisdom in deciding what matters most and what I should do. I don’t want to waste my life. Please give me the courage to say ‘no’ to the wrong things and ‘yes’ to the right things. Most of all, help me to trust you. Forgive me for thinking and acting as if everything depends on me. It doesn’t. It all depends on you! I want to have greater faith in you and less reliance on myself. I want less stress and more margin in my life. In your name I pray. Amen.” 

I believe this message is a good reminder for many of us. So often we are trapped by the things around us and have forgotten that God is the one in control.When he is in control your life will have a smoother ride.Its so true,Rick Warren says God can do more in 20 minutes than what we can do in 20 years.I have so many things on my plate.TBH,i not sure how and what am i going to deal with all of them..please pray for me that i will worry less and trust more in God for all of my worries.


Sunday, October 9, 2016

Bridal shower 17 Sept 2016

As usual the angels in our group chat will organised hang out every now and then.So the 3 sat before,we have planned to have picnic at Fitzroy garden as this is the season where the flowers are blooming.

Early morning,i was busy doing some spring cleaning then start  making sushi as promised .To my surprised,it turns out to be an early bridal shower for me!  I have never suspected anything so special from the girls.Truly im thankful for all your thoughtfulness in organizing this special day.Thanks Sy,Jw,Anna and Step:) I have always wanted to do a spring picnic with beautiful spread of food.One ticked off my bucket list:)



The crew behind the scene waiting for my arrival hahaha


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Beautiful spread of food which i always dreamt of having in the park.You ladies make one my of dreams come true



me with all the ladies from LSCC.So glad to have you all in my life! Truly blessed 

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

TZ & HL = 60 days to go

Can you imagine,in another 2 months will be the big day! A brand new chapter of my life .A life not only me anymore but US:)   Seriously cant wait for November 12,2016 to come...

Both of us are still pretty relax given that we still have many other little things needed to do.Each day we are slowly sorting things out one after another..Im glad,we finished the wedding invites,got a makeup artist and a photographer.Next target will be helping tony with his suits,shoes, bring friends over to the wedding venue , brainstorming on the photo booth ,decorations and also get my hair trial for the wedding.



Our biggest  achievement is to get this done

Invitation Card 


Theme Colour: Coral

Style: Vintage with lace 







Really thankful to have dear for helping me with the cards..i wont have finished it so fast without him.





Tatatata..my end product
I am  really happy with the outcome 
When i see this all the effort and time  paid off..
Hopefully my guest will treasure them as much as i treasure them.

 

Thursday, September 1, 2016

Friends and Family

We had a mini yum cha gathering 2 weeks ago with the ladies and the Sims.I really grateful to have this 3 ladies who constantly praying and supporting me.Although we dont catch up everyday or as often ,but it is all because of Christ we are together. 8 years in Melbourne ,more years to come

 21st August 2016


I just looked at the calendar, another 69 to the wedding day. Although i have done most of the things,but i still cant picture how that day gonna be like.will everything fall into place?
If you reading this post,please pray for us that we can get a photographer and a makeup artist for that day.Apart from that,please pray that our wedding will be a good impact to our non believer friends,because a lot of my friends and colleagues have never been to a church wedding before.We hope it will a good start to introduce them the church .

Mum and dad and my Future in laws have both set the wedding dinner dates in Malaysia and China.Really looking forward for the other 2 big day in Malaysia and China! At the same will be good for both parents to meet up in China ..Truly im really blessed that my family have been so supportive all these while.Not only my whole family coming over to our Melbourne wedding.they are all planning to go for my china one as well.thank you Lord!

Stay tune for more updates !