3 months ,3 weddings ,3 countries- CHINA WEDDING

One of my biggest dream is to get married to a man God has prepared.Finally,after 27 years of waiting ,prayer answered!

I believe every girl have a dream of wanting to be the prettiest one on their wedding day , and well i am quite privilege to have 3 hehehe.Australia,Malaysia and China.4 dresses in 3 wedding lunch/dinner.

Among all the big days, apart from the melb one(our main wedding),  china's wedding lunch was a memorable event. Although MIL has already simplify the whole ceremony , but the whole procession of the day still feels like it was our main wedding ceremony. lots of relatives who i met for the first time ,fireworks,wedding car , decorated wedding room,new bedsheet,n etc....so many rituals which are so different from Malaysia or Australia.i totally enjoying every second of it...lol..ill let the picture to do the talking 

So everything in China wedding is in RED or Gold  :) 

HOUSE AND ROOM DECORATIONS

my hair and make up for the day 

 Totally love this red dress:)

Our wedding car and we actually have 15 other relatives cars decorated with flowers too

ME having the privileges of the feels of being back in 1930s

The 'Tai tai ' look lol

We also had some praise and worship for our china wedding to give thanks to God for this wonderful day he has made for us.

Our family pic with parents from both sides

Ton's dad didn't manage to attend our melbourne wedding so we have another tea ceremony for dad in china

 The china culture,relatives giving gold as a present for the bride.

 This is the culture shock i got on the day! Bride giving out cigarettes to every man that smokes

I shall shut down my computer and head off to dinner:)

Good night

Finally we are back to Australia after 6 weeks of holiday/mini honeymoon in China and Malaysia.

6 weeks or more of solid holiday with sleeping in late  and yummy food every day  have definitely turned both of us into 'the Piggy body shape" we basically rolled back with heavy hearts,body and luggage all the way from Malaysia,China to Melbourne.It is my first time to china, and guess what i am almost didn't wanted to come back to Melbourne.I must say i am a lucky daughter in-law.The Zhangs Family treated me so well.Both Tony's parents welcome me with wide arms and treated me like their own daughter.Mum always stop me from  cleaning or cooking.She kept asking me to go watch tv.TBH,i feel bad for doing nothing.Well, of course i still instead and offer myself to help her around.Really thank God for good parents in law.For those, who are not married, not only pray for a good husband,pray for good in laws too! i can testified God answered prayers:)

So many events and things going on for the pass months and weeks..i probably will update them whenever i have the time:).

I will probably write some updates on all my weddings.so watch out for my next post.The china wedding was amazing, stay tuned for the next post .

Wedding day - Morning (Tea Ceremony) 1 Part

12th November 2016

Our my wedding day, i actually woke up really early at around 4.30am just  because i couldn't sleep further as i was too excited for the day .Dad woke up much earlier than me due to jetlag .The morning itself has started off well with a good chat with dad:) 

 thats me in the morning with all the bouquets made by aunt Brenda.

First bouquet is my bridal bouquet,second one is my throw away bouquet for the single lady,aunt is so detail she made the throw away one so pretty exactly the same as my bouquet.

bridesmaid's Bouquet 

My beautiful Bouquet with peonies and roses 

Love it to the Max:)

 Let me emphasis abit in here..can you see the detail of the handle??

 Lace with pearl pins.

Huge thank you to Aunt,Aunt has put so much effort into all the flowers and did all i have ever wanted:)

If you are looking for a florist let me know i can ask my aunt-i can guarantee she is 100% times better than any florist in the market

I was quite relax in the morning, not having to rush for makeup or dressing up..Makeup artist Kate came at around 9.30am and did my makeup and hair.TBH,unlike any other brides, i was brave enough not having any pre-trial of hair and makeup with Kate. Purely trusting  her skill based on the photos she did for other brides. Thank Goodness ,the result was super good ! I really like my makeup and hair for the day. Never expected myself to look so beautiful ! 

Me with makeup done

Hair done with David Austin roses and baby breath 

Not forgetting taking pictures with all my lovely bridesmaids 

Below are the gifts we have prepared for the bridal party

my diy Lace gift bag with some goodies 

 me and Tony in Aunt Brenda's courtyard 

 Tea ceremony 

that is Tony's mum 

 The Lee Family 

Words cant describe how happy i am to have the whole family in Melbourne.This is the first time all of us are gathered tgt overseas.

2 weeks after our wedding

2 weeks into marriage and we were luckily to have mums from both side to cook and clean the house for us. Especially a huge thanks to my dearest mum, I am glad she stayed on for another 2 weeks after our wedding to help me settling in my new chapter of life.

It has definitely been a huge transition for me:

Ever since the wedding, I moved to my new home in Broadmeadows.I have to move all my stuff which I have accumulated in the past years into the new home. To be honest, it wasn’t easy. Having to pack and unpack everything. Luckily mum is around to help me pack and unpack it..you won’t imagine the amount of things I have! Seriously, I cant believe with my own eyes too. Even up to now, I still have things in the apartmentL.

Apart from that, now I need to travel a further distance to work. First few days of work, I was totally exhausted having to spend 1.40 hour one way to work. Around 3 hours of time spent on traveling has been mentally exhausting. Luckily, my boss allows me to work 10 to 6pm instead of 9 to 5, which help slight for now. But still, around 2 hours on the road each day isn’t easy for me. Hope things will slower gets better.

Nonetheless, the best part of it is I am able to see Tony everyday .Having someone to cuddle during the night, a shoulder to lean on when you are tired or upset is the best! At least I know, I am not alone after all.

After the wedding, everyone been asking so how’s marriage life? Well, it is all too early to tell! All I can tell you now is we are glad God has chosen us to be together for the rest of our life. Nothing beats a husband God has prepared for u!

Well, Mum and Matthew left on Monday night so yesterday was the official day the two of us start our first day as husband and wife duty…I was home at 7pm,and thankfully Tony was home slightly early and guess what my husband cooks dinner !